How to Bring the Romance Back This Valentine's Day

By Joshua Nyamache

Valentine's Day is here, but is this the only day that you should show romance to your partner? What of the other days? Love should be unconditional. There is no love without emotional connection. You have to be connected emotionally for you to say you're in love with someone. You'll be left hurt if you sincerely believe in the relationship while your partner doesn't. It will be a painful relationship if one of you lacks the strong emotional feelings of being in love.

It is true love that builds a strong bond between partners. And trust comes about when you have true love for your partner. Otherwise you'll be left hurt if you love your partner and your partner doesn't love you (unrequited love). When partners don't pay attention to things that express their love for one another they'll find it difficult to have a purposeful, meaningful, stable and fulfilling relationship.

There are things that women wished their men knew about. Women try to tell men what they really need using many ways, but are men paying attention to them? On top of the list what women need is to be loved, to be treated like a woman, to be listened to and well taken care of.

Saint Valentine's Day is the occasion that you and your partner should find time so as to be alone, the time to take a break from the normal routine that is boring so as to do something romantic with your partner. This is a special day to have a conversation with your partner as if you're dating for the first time. The kind of conversation that brings back all the romance, the chemistry that happened to both of you when you were first attracted to one another.

Saint Valentine's Day is the day your girlfriend or your wife will know how much you mean to her. It is the time that men get tested by their girlfriends and wives, they'll weigh how creative their boyfriends or husbands are when it comes to expressing their romance feelings. It is the day women have high expectations to be pampered by men they love. What if you don't have something lined up for your girlfriend or wife? I'm not sure if she will vent her feelings to you unless you give it a try by disappearing the whole day, not paying any attention to her and see what happens next when you return in the wee hours giving her a lame excuse! All in all you should not disappoint her, line up something special that she will talk about especially when her friends discuss how they were pampered like queens during Saint Valentine's Day by their boyfriends or husbands.

Saint Valentine's Day is the opportunity for singles to ask someone they're in love with to go out on date, the day to woo her with something special. And if you had issues in your relationship you should use this day to reconcile. Revive the romance you had before things fell apart with your girlfriend or wife.

How will you impress your partner on this special night? Some of the small things that men usually not pay attention to are the ones that impress women. You and your partner should bring your romance back by paying attention to small things that matter a lot. Do something different this time, something new that will awake your partner to realize the lost romance and bring it back.

How to Bring the Romance Back
1.) Psychological Preparedness: Start by connecting to one another in a romantic way through the little talk a day prior to Saint Valentine's Day. Raise the expectations that something special is lined up. Send romantic text messages to raise these expectations so as to prepare your partner. It is all about preparing one another psychologically in advance before you get together alone to celebrate the night during Valentine's Day.
2.) The Romantic Dress: Go through your wardrobe and find something very romantic to wear on this special night. The dress that will make you to look very attractive and skimpy but I'm not telling you to wear something that is leaving very little to imagination of the unseen things. Your common sense will tell you what dress is very romantic for this special night, go ahead and bring the romance back by wearing that sexy dress that will indulge him in his fantasies of romance.
3.) Have a Romantic Dinner: Whether you decide to have it at home or somewhere else, what matters is making it to be a romantic dinner. Remember your aim is to bring the romance back. You're already aware that lighting scented candles, soft romantic music playing (like Luther Ronzoni Vandross' songs) and bottle of wine or champagne will make dinner to be a romantic one.
4.) Conversation: This is the most powerful way of bringing the romance back during Saint Valentine's Day. When did you last find time to be together alone with your partner so that you discuss your relationship? You should discuss how far you have come from in your relationship, bring back those wonderful moments you had together. Do some dirty talking with your partner to bring the romance back. This is a special night for you to get naughty in your conversation with the aim of connecting emotionally with your spouse. Tell all to each other how much love you have for one another. Have a conversation that is flowing freely to lead you in having an intimacy relationship with your spouse.
5.) A Romantic Gift: There are some gifts that express romance, use such gifts to woo your partner. Bring the romance back during Valentine's Day by purchasing a romantic gift to surprise your partner with.

Saint Valentine's Day should not be a day to hurt the feelings of your partner. During this day find time to spend with your partner whether you're still dating or married. Be creative and you don't have to go expensive to express your romance during this day.
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